Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
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- Author：Sherry Argov
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Summary
Discover why men are attracted to strong， independent women with this straight-forward， accessible dating guide from New York Times bestselling author Sherry Argov。
Do you feel like you are too nice？ Sherry Argov’s Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself。 With saucy detail on every page， this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a “yes woman” who routinely sacrifices herself。 The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
-Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change？
-Why do men take nice girls for granted？
-Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself？
Full of advice， hilarious real-life relationship scenarios， “she says/he thinks” tables， and the author’s unique “Attraction Principles，” Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers。 It helps you know who you are， stand your ground， and relate to men on a whole new level。 Once you’ve discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic， you’ll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you’ll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort。
Do you feel like you are too nice？ Sherry Argov’s Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself。 With saucy detail on every page， this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a “yes woman” who routinely sacrifices herself。 The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
-Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change？
-Why do men take nice girls for granted？
-Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself？
Full of advice， hilarious real-life relationship scenarios， “she says/he thinks” tables， and the author’s unique “Attraction Principles，” Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers。 It helps you know who you are， stand your ground， and relate to men on a whole new level。 Once you’ve discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic， you’ll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you’ll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort。
Reviews
Ashley Pouget
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Do I think this book makes some good points， yes。 I also think it points out a lot about knowing your worth。 However， I feel as if some of the advice is…。 Awful。 If I have to pretend to not know how to change a lightbulb to make him feel as if he did something life-changing for me… I would just rather be alone。 Some of the examples， in my opinion， were not areas to work at， they were areas to simply say “this guy sucks， leave him”。 Some parts， I also feel， we’re a bit repetitive。
Lindsay
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This book is very intriguing。 I really enjoyed it and thought there was a different perspective than the mainstream。 My main take away is to not loose yourself within a relationship - no one comes before you。 It emphasizes self-respect and I feel like I gained something from it。 I would recommend to any female single， taken， married， etc。
Anaëlle Diecy
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Struggling with relationship problems or you want to be aware of what are signs of red flags/ green flags？ This book is for you！Not gonna lie I felt like a bad b*tch reading it
Mourina Anugrah
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Absolutely love it！I agreed at some point， and disagreed at some。The men that were written in this book obviously from Sherry Argov's life， which can't be generalized since we were born from different country and have different culture。But I say yes to independent woman that pay her own bills but still being grateful for her man's ugliest gift。She taught us to be independent， not being the nice girl that gives her man everything， hold him without holding him， choosing the Tupperware party instea Absolutely love it！I agreed at some point， and disagreed at some。The men that were written in this book obviously from Sherry Argov's life， which can't be generalized since we were born from different country and have different culture。But I say yes to independent woman that pay her own bills but still being grateful for her man's ugliest gift。She taught us to be independent， not being the nice girl that gives her man everything， hold him without holding him， choosing the Tupperware party instead of having a wonderful trip on a cruise， lmao。But I enjoyed this book for real。 。。。more
Rafaela Cristina
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Feminista？ Não！ Apenas coagida a ler pela minha amiga hétero…。。
Monica
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Good book to read for strong women
Laura
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Questionable advice， would not recommend
Ashley Foltz
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This is the most toxic book I've seen。 It's a game full of 'attraction principles'， aka how to play the game and manipulate a man into loving you。 If the goal is to empower and liberate women in love， it is achieving the opposite。 This is the most toxic book I've seen。 It's a game full of 'attraction principles'， aka how to play the game and manipulate a man into loving you。 If the goal is to empower and liberate women in love， it is achieving the opposite。 。。。more
Anthony Lebedev
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Very not true lolololololololololoolololololollllololoololol
Zayn Khan
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My sister read this book and it’s absolutely amazing。 She said that this book totally helped her out with some questions and she’d definitely recommend it to her friends。 Super god。 💯
Gavin
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False statement。
Maryam
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اگر بعضی بخش‌های مبالغه‌آمیز رو حذف کنیم ، کتاب خوبی بود و برای یه زندگی بهتر ایده میداد。。。 اما خب بعضی جاها هم یکم مردها رو بد نشون داده بود یا حداقل بنظر من خوب نوشته نشده بود！ یه قسمت‌هایی هم با فرهنگ ما جور نبود خیلی
Rula
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Very nice book but the worst Arabic translation I have ever readUnfortunately I didnt find the english version
Zahra
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اصلا دوست نداشتم اینقدر که بعد از چند هفته نظر دادم تا بذارم ناراحتیم کم شه。 بیشتر ناراحت شدم دیدم یک زن این کتاب رو نوشته。。。ویژگی هایی که برا زن زیرک کتابش گفته بود همه خوب بود ولی مشکل کتاب تعمیم دادنش به کل جمعیته و اینکه وقتی میخونی احساس میکنی میخواد به زوررررر تویی که حالا شاید بعضی ویژگی های شخصیت مدنظر نویسنده کتاب رو نداری مجاب کنه که اینجور زنی بی نقصه و اگه مثل اون بشی و اگه اونطور باشی دیگه هیچ مشکلی نیس و آقایون میپرستنت 。 در واقع تشویق کردن به تبدیل شدن به کسی که نیستی و یا اصلا ش اصلا دوست نداشتم اینقدر که بعد از چند هفته نظر دادم تا بذارم ناراحتیم کم شه。 بیشتر ناراحت شدم دیدم یک زن این کتاب رو نوشته。。。ویژگی هایی که برا زن زیرک کتابش گفته بود همه خوب بود ولی مشکل کتاب تعمیم دادنش به کل جمعیته و اینکه وقتی میخونی احساس میکنی میخواد به زوررررر تویی که حالا شاید بعضی ویژگی های شخصیت مدنظر نویسنده کتاب رو نداری مجاب کنه که اینجور زنی بی نقصه و اگه مثل اون بشی و اگه اونطور باشی دیگه هیچ مشکلی نیس و آقایون میپرستنت 。 در واقع تشویق کردن به تبدیل شدن به کسی که نیستی و یا اصلا شاید نخوای باشی و مجبور بشی تظاهر کنی。 که در نهایتم بشی بدون شک خسته میشی و میای دوباره برمیگردی همون قالب شخصیتی که قبلا بودی。。 ضمن اینکه اصلا در نظر نگرفته که هم زنها و هم مردا هر کدوم متفاوت و منحصر به فردن و البته چطور تونسته اینو خیلی راحت تعمیم بده و بر اساس چه متر و معیاری موندم。 。。。more
Annalise Julia
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i’m not really a self help person but this was a good book
Mina
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Gosh， I wish every woman would read this。 At this recent period in history， women are being sold fiction that men and women are entirely equal - that nothing is inherently feminine， nor masculine - that it is okay for a woman to tirelessly pursue a man。 Ultimately， this book is not going to help with the root of the behaviour it seeks to address （low-self esteem）。 However， implementing the action within it is nonetheless invaluable， because this concept operates as a self-fulfilling cycle。
Monique Means
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This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it， click here。 Okay， so I did learn a few good things from the book as a former nice girl。 I need to stop revolving my energy around a partner and turn it back on to myself。 I agree that nagging does not get the job done。 If you communicate a need and that need is not being met， either accept it or find someone else who can fulfill that need。 I have a tendency to try to force people to fulfill every need， it’s my toxic trait。 The author lost me at a few parts。 One， I do enjoy masculine energy and allowing men Okay， so I did learn a few good things from the book as a former nice girl。 I need to stop revolving my energy around a partner and turn it back on to myself。 I agree that nagging does not get the job done。 If you communicate a need and that need is not being met， either accept it or find someone else who can fulfill that need。 I have a tendency to try to force people to fulfill every need， it’s my toxic trait。 The author lost me at a few parts。 One， I do enjoy masculine energy and allowing men to do things for me。 However， if a man is driving and is going in the wrong direction IM GOING TO TELL HIM。 Let’s stop stroking their egos so much。 If a man gets offended that I actually know something then he should be out the door。 Another part that had me confused was when she was talking about wasting time in therapy。 I am in therapy， and it is important that my future partner also went to therapy or is working on regulating their emotions on their own time。 The idea that men cannot tune into their emotions like women and therefore we shouldn’t bother being over emotional was like okay？？？ That’s the point of the book that I checked out。Overall - good lessons about being a bad bitch， bad lessons about emotions and independence。 。。。more
Rebecca
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I saw so mang women on Tik Tok saying that this is a book any woman has to read。 Therefore， I had high expectations of it and maybe that's the reason why I was so disappointed。 I am not saying it is a bad book and I kinda understand what the author was aiming at。 But I did not like the way she portrayed men in general。 I believe not all of them are the same and not all of them like "bitches" （and yes， I know how she defines a "bitch"）。 I think it's great to set healthy boundaries， but I generall I saw so mang women on Tik Tok saying that this is a book any woman has to read。 Therefore， I had high expectations of it and maybe that's the reason why I was so disappointed。 I am not saying it is a bad book and I kinda understand what the author was aiming at。 But I did not like the way she portrayed men in general。 I believe not all of them are the same and not all of them like "bitches" （and yes， I know how she defines a "bitch"）。 I think it's great to set healthy boundaries， but I generally do not like when people act like "all" men/ women are the same and like the same things。 So yeah， I understand what the author was trying to bring across， but I still think people are more complex than that 。。。more
Anna Annushka
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Perspectives
Gaia Milizia
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Girls， do yourself a favour and read it。
Aline Farias
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Outdated
Riya Mahesh
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So true。 Devoured this one
P2
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تو این سبک متاسفانه زیاد کتاب نخوندم و این رو به پیشنهاد یکی از عزیزان مطالعه کردم و حقیقتش به پشت جلد دقت نکردم🥲چون در نگاه اول اگر میدیدم اسم انگلیسی کتاب چیه نمیخردیمشبعد از شوخ طبعیش（که خود نویسنده هم بهش اصرار داره） بدم نیومدبنظرم این مدل کتابها در زمان‌های مختلف به درد افراد مختلف میخوره نمیشه کلی گفت که چرت محضه من هم شاید انتظار نداشتم خیلی جاها انقدر بی انصافی کنه ولی با همسرم که درمیون گذاشتم دیدم همچین هم پرت و پلا نمیگهخیلی نظرات منفی شنیدم راجع بهش که همش میگه خودتو بالا بگیر تا ازت تو این سبک متاسفانه زیاد کتاب نخوندم و این رو به پیشنهاد یکی از عزیزان مطالعه کردم و حقیقتش به پشت جلد دقت نکردم🥲چون در نگاه اول اگر میدیدم اسم انگلیسی کتاب چیه نمیخردیمشبعد از شوخ طبعیش（که خود نویسنده هم بهش اصرار داره） بدم نیومدبنظرم این مدل کتابها در زمان‌های مختلف به درد افراد مختلف میخوره نمیشه کلی گفت که چرت محضه من هم شاید انتظار نداشتم خیلی جاها انقدر بی انصافی کنه ولی با همسرم که درمیون گذاشتم دیدم همچین هم پرت و پلا نمیگهخیلی نظرات منفی شنیدم راجع بهش که همش میگه خودتو بالا بگیر تا ازت خوششون بیاد اما بنظرم این کتاب یه حقیقته تلخه که ما باورش نمیکنیمو در نهایت فصل آخرشو دوست داشتم و کتاب کاملا برام ۵۰-۵۰ بود。 。。。more
Gabrielle Raines
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I bought this book years ago when I was blogging。 I initially thought I would hate it and I'd write an angsty review。 However， the book didn't turn out to be what I was expecting。 What the author quips as "bitchiness" is really just assertiveness。 She points out that women are essentially socialized to not say what they mean and act passive-aggressively in their relationships。 Perhaps it's my neurodivergence at play， but it's not a behavior I relate to。 I'm known to be rather blunt and forthrigh I bought this book years ago when I was blogging。 I initially thought I would hate it and I'd write an angsty review。 However， the book didn't turn out to be what I was expecting。 What the author quips as "bitchiness" is really just assertiveness。 She points out that women are essentially socialized to not say what they mean and act passive-aggressively in their relationships。 Perhaps it's my neurodivergence at play， but it's not a behavior I relate to。 I'm known to be rather blunt and forthright。 It simplifies things in life。 Even still， I do think some women will find the stories entertaining and the message empowering。 It's the antithesis to "pick-me" culture。 。。。more
Devyn Encalada
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this book was just funny to read but lowkey made a lot of sense why men are the way they are hahaha
Claire Cvengros
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fuck this book。 first of all， i don’t need a book to tell me to be a bitch to men， and they immediately lost me with the incessant slut-shaming。 let women do what they want， for christ’s sake。 for a book claiming to “liberate” women， it has quite the misogynist undertone。 “don’t do things just for men， but here is exactly how to perform for the male gaze and adjust your personality completely to get men to like you。” couldn’t even make it past page 50。 fuck you， sherry argov
asaf faigel
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informative infooooo :）） slow read but it’s also mainly full of advice and personal scenarios。
Engy
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Really gives women the wake up call they need to prioritize themselves and have fun without the need to share it with their partner， loved it so much
alika ☾
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I love love love this book soooooo much
سجى أمير
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